Love Your Body, Love Yourself

Can you imagine the look on a caveman or woman's face if they were to emerge from back then to now via the dressing room of a TJ Maxx...


Choosing Love After Infidelity and Divorce

Happy New Year, kittens.  Add this to the thousands of reasons why you deserve to have a year of adventures, magic and deep love in 2013: You have helped me to heal...


Santa, Baby, I

Dear Santa, I've been a really good girl.  I could have gone all Carrie Underwood on The Genius when I found out about his four year affair...


Dealing with Divorce

Dealing makes me think of poker.  Dealing with divorce makes me think of the total lack of humility, empathy and tact on behalf of The Genius...


Forgive Infidelity? Are You Nuts?

When I descended from my mountain meditation I was at peace with how I was dealing with the absence of Mr. Jackpot.  I felt like I was being...


Meditation: Oming My Way Through Divorce

I have to meditate more.  More?  Pft.  I have to meditate. When I hike I ponder, yes.  Do I zone in a meditative way?  I don't think so...


I

Tuesday I drove to Limantour Beach, the birthplace of my soul, and hiked for four hours.  I headed north, sticking close to the water's edge...


Call Me Ping.  Or Pong.  But I

The Genius has been away for 4 days and I think it's already starting to screw with his psyche.  I'm trying to be compassionate, but it's exhausting...


Anybody Seen My Heart?

There we all were, at Easter Sunday mass, a broken family.  I cried through the blessing of the congregation with holy water because...


Divorce the Cheater, Not the Game Plan

This afternoon The Genius lost his hummus on me.  He let his anger at the mess he has created get the better of him, and I became the target of his spew...


Dating Your Divorced Self

There are two of ‘me’ right now.  Perhaps I should be thankful there aren’t more of ‘me’.  That might be cause for an intervention.  Or a margarita...


Divorce Can Make You Whole

First, apologies for the site being down.  On an epic day on so many fronts, the traffic to HGM skyrocketed...


I Created My Divorce

I create my reality, you create your reality. And, yes, I created my divorce. I'll give you a moment to let that sink in. That does not mean...


You

Going through a divorce is an experience that can and does up-end the most grounded of people. The ricochet of emotions,