Boundaries are Better than Boyfriends

Having sex by the third date is not going to ruin a great connection, and it's not going to morph a misfire into a direct hit.


Move Is Complete, My Taut Tuchus!

Actually, my tuchus isn't taut anymore.  And my move is far from over.  I have worked out twice since I transitioned to Bolinas over the last...


Keep Away: The Sport of Courtship

The Ninety Day Rule: should you withhold sex from a man for 90 days?


Things Are Getting a Little Witchy Around Here.

Way back when, a few nights ago, when I met Mr. Viking out on the town for an adult beverage, I had the most remarkable experience...


Did Somebody Say Sex?  Not Me, Mom!

I want to be intimate with a man.  A man I don't want to marry, because I don't want to get married again. 


Are You Married?  No, I Lied.

The first time I walked into a Trader Joe's I walked out empty-handed thinking, What is all the fuss about?  Maybe it's an LA thing. 


He Hung the Moon

No offense to those who make a living in the service industry, where they no doubt deal with all sorts of unsavory scenarios with great care...


What Is It Exactly That You Are Feeling?

Some days I wonder what it would be like if we could just grunt to each other as our ancestors did before language was constructed...


Testing, Testing...Is This Sign Working?

Until the day I die, and the mysteries of the Universe are unveiled to me, I buy it all.  Whatever you want to sell me, I'm buying it...


At the Speed of Sound, But So Old-Fashioned

Fleet Week in San Francisco brings thousands of people to the Bay Area to witness the remarkable feats of air machines that maneuver...


The Richness of Sweetbreads and a Gentle Nature

That feeling of having plateaued these past few weeks has been replaced with a reactivated sense of curiosity, an active quest for joy...


Going East, But It Feels Like Going West, The Wild West

This is going to be short, sweet and dirty, and this blog is about to get real wild. I must arise in mere hours, as in 5...


Dating While Divorcing: Don

At least that's what my Mom says.  She's of the belief that one should wait a full year AFTER the divorce is final to date.  As in final...