Celebrating Truth and Divorce with a Clear Conscience

One year ago, at this exact moment in time, The Genius' cell phone decided to bust open his 4 year affair by letting me in on the double life he was leading...


My Mom Climbed Mt. Whitney and My Dad

On the way out to Mt. Whitney from Marin the GPS took me to Lake Tahoe and then directed me south to Mammoth Lakes. 


Divorce 101: When to Intro the Kids to the Married Mistress?

How about never?  Unless you're The Genius. Then you do it at your first possibly opportunity. How very Mensa of you...


Divorce, Delays and The Definition of Insanity

The soon-to-be divorced Genius moved out. But left his clothes. The sight of them in the closet made me ill. So did the wedding gift...


Everybody Was Happy! And That

The mind is a terrible thing to waste. It can convince you of anything. And desperately wants to. It can convince you that you are telling the truth even when you're not...


Infidelity and Therapy...Perfect Together.  Entry #10

We found Dr. K, Couples Counselor, therapist and person who has to listen to WAY too much about infidelity, online. Shocker...


He Cheated on Me with His Vendor? Entry #7

No offense to those who make a living in the service industry, where they no doubt deal with all sorts of unsavory scenarios with great care...


Big, Bad, Cheating Spouse Limbo Sucks - Entry #5

It's exhausting, pretending your spouse isn't cheating on you. But that's exactly what I had to do. I had to pretend nothing was wrong...