Celebrating Truth and Divorce with a Clear Conscience

One year ago, at this exact moment in time, The Genius' cell phone decided to bust open his 4 year affair by letting me in on the double life he was leading...


My Mom Climbed Mt. Whitney and My Dad

On the way out to Mt. Whitney from Marin the GPS took me to Lake Tahoe and then directed me south to Mammoth Lakes. 


Divorce Can Make You Whole

First, apologies for the site being down.  On an epic day on so many fronts, the traffic to HGM skyrocketed...


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Going through a divorce is an experience that can and does up-end the most grounded of people. The ricochet of emotions,


Divorce 101: When to Intro the Kids to the Married Mistress?

How about never?  Unless you're The Genius. Then you do it at your first possibly opportunity. How very Mensa of you...


To Trust or Not To Trust After Betrayal?

"He took away my ability to trust." So said I to Dr. K. (Couples Counseling Might Not Work!) during a December session. How would I ever trust someone...


Swimming Upstream with No End in Sight

New Year's Eve was fast approaching. So what does a family in crisis do? They decide to go camping. Demi and Ashton did it...


Everybody Was Happy! And That

The mind is a terrible thing to waste. It can convince you of anything. And desperately wants to. It can convince you that you are telling the truth even when you're not...


Infidelity and Therapy...Perfect Together.  Entry #10

We found Dr. K, Couples Counselor, therapist and person who has to listen to WAY too much about infidelity, online. Shocker...


He Cheated on Me with His Vendor? Entry #7

No offense to those who make a living in the service industry, where they no doubt deal with all sorts of unsavory scenarios with great care...


Big, Bad, Cheating Spouse Limbo Sucks - Entry #5

It's exhausting, pretending your spouse isn't cheating on you. But that's exactly what I had to do. I had to pretend nothing was wrong...


Love Can Lead You to the Truth - Entry #1

Exactly two weeks ago today, to the minute, I sat at my husband's desk and stared at his laptop. With shaking hands, a focused mind and a...