Unconditional Love:  That Means Everybody!

A minette (please, be impressed by my French, courtesy of Google) in Montreal sent me a video about the wounded child...


What Is It Exactly That You Are Feeling?

Some days I wonder what it would be like if we could just grunt to each other as our ancestors did before language was constructed...


Fear Doesn

Earlier in the week, I had a conversation with a woman who was feeling insecure in her relationship.  Her revelation, and the fact that...


Letting Go is a Sport in Divorce

I've got an issue with that "Let Go or Be Dragged" quote.  It's misleading.  It insinuates that one needs to let go once.  Process over...


Divorce 101: Let Go or Be Dragged

The quietest of days can swirl themselves up into a frenzy, spitting out message after message and sign after sign, bombarding me from all sides


Is It Denial?  Or Is It Being Duped?

During one of The Genius' Cleo bashing sessions, he told me I was living in denial.  That our marriage had disintegrated a long time ago...


Divorce Requires Beauty Sleep

here's a saying that I despise, No good deed goes unpunished.  It's simply not true.  Two weeks ago I felt that communication between...


Divorce Mandate: Barista or Check-out Girl?

I pictured the morning of the divorce meeting, the first time in months The Genius and I would participate in a substantive conversation...


There

The drive home from Stinson Beach is one I treasure.  Whether I go north or south to reach my destination, the road curves 


Infidelity is No Farce, Pity is No Party

My body is wrecked.  Numb.  Muscles aching from holding on for dear life.  Today was moving day.  But not for me.  For The Genius...


Celebrating Truth and Divorce with a Clear Conscience

One year ago, at this exact moment in time, The Genius' cell phone decided to bust open his 4 year affair by letting me in on the double life he was leading...


HGM

Thanks to the kindness of readers, we have retrieved the Lost Post.  At one point while writing a particular sentence in this post, I was somehow...


Divorce - Slow and Steady Wins the Race

Happy Father's Day to all the Dads, and the Moms who fulfill both roles.  May your dreams for your children come true...


Neither Tumbles Nor Wounds Nor Fears Will Alter My Course

Many apologies for the delay in the post.  My hands have seen better days...but let's not start there. For all the beauty and strength...