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For two people who really don't have any complicated issues to address, this divorce is epically long.  Unnecessarily sustained...


Finding Love in Las Vegas

Friday night Barbie with Brains and I reunited and it felt so good.  We gathered to celebrate on the eve of her son's wedding, in a town known for quickie marriages that lack staying power, Las Vegas.


Adultery and Divorce Killed Trust.  Discernment Brought It Back.

In a room with a couch, an orchid and a box of tissues sat three people.  Dr. K., The Genius and me. The Genius had finally (maybe) confessed...


Fear Not, Bolinas Has Your Back!

In Bolinas summer has just begun.

July and August bring nearly all day fog which wets the Earth, and for some the spirit...


PSTD: Public Shedding of Tears and Drama

I don't have the luxury of deciding whether or not to engage in PDAs.  (Public Displays of Affection, for the uninitiated)...


How Infidelity and Divorce are Making Me Outdoorsy

I'm not your average experienced camper. I'm not even sure I qualify - yet - as a camper. But as a soon to be divorced Mom of two boys, I need to fulfill both roles: Nurture-er and Nature-er.


Infidelity, Divorce and the Custody of a Soul

We interrupt the tale of The Dudes, A Ginger and Plumas-Eureka (a phrase with many meanings) to bring you this email from a kitten.


Camping and the Single Mom

I promised a post.  I also promise that I will return from the Sierras.  With both dudes. Alive...


Nearly Cheated Out of Life by Infidelity, A Near Death Experience

It's been said that experiencing divorce is like experiencing a death.  Discovering infidelity - waking up one day, married, and then finding out...


Divorcing My Ego, with Spidey Super Powers

If I am ever itching for some late night intimacy I need only crawl into bed these days and say, Come and get it...


Let Go My Eggo!  But Take My Ego, Please.

Last September I had lunch with Mr. Jumpshot in Venice Beach after swimming with an Elephant Seal and losing my bikini bottom in the surf...


Liberated by Divorce, Free to Be Me

Lately, as I explore new nooks and hidden hamlets of Marin on my way to somewhere, I get turned around, led adrift...


If A Mouth is Moving, Is It Lying?

While probably not my first lie, it's the earliest one in my memory.  The scene, the playground at my grammar school, by the seesaw...


Choosing Love After Infidelity and Divorce

Happy New Year, kittens.  Add this to the thousands of reasons why you deserve to have a year of adventures, magic and deep love in 2013: You have helped me to heal...