Ladies! You really need to listen to my podcast! It’s like talking to your girlfriends on all the trials of getting through divorce and single parenting. Every. Single. Aspect. Of. It.
Do you find yourself in mid-life having to start over and have no idea what direction to go in? Are you suddenly single, single parenting, head of household, or unemployed?
I am an author, comedian, life lesson guru and feisty redhead. I’ve been divorced for 16 years and went from no child support, losing jobs, being evicted and on food stamps to having my son graduate with honors from NYU and 1 daughter at Quinnipiac University in CT. and 1 daughter starting at University of Rhode Island in the Fall. I did it! I made it through aaaaalllll the bullshit and succeeded. And you can too!
I shares my stories and interviews people who can help you turn your life around when you have to start over and still stay fabulous while doing so! I talk about real stuff that happens to real people and how to laugh about it and get yourself back on track! You’re not alone! Listen, laugh, and learn!
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In my latest episode “13: Feel Like Your Relationship is All Give and No Get? Don’t Whine, Set Boundaries!” I discuss how to get what you want and if you don’t, be prepared to walk away. I discuss how to decipher if you are being jerked around! It’s really pretty easy but it’s based on facing the truth and accepting it. Maybe the other person is giving you a load of bull, maybe it’s just not going your way… either way stop whining, set boundaries, and be prepared to let it go. People will show you their true colors.
Have you ever been in a situation where the guy you are seeing says one thing but does another? They act one way in private and another in public? Maybe one day he seems like you are the love of his life but the next day he acts like you don’t exist? We all have. You’re not alone. This scenario is all too common. And it’s really not such a great mystery… here’s how to figure it out.
First and foremost, it’s his problem. Nothing you can say or do will change his behavior. Listen to the podcast and find out how to change your behavior. There is a… oh let’s say 50/50 chance you could POSSIBLY change his behavior, but don’t bet the farm on it. Here’s how… stop giving a shit.
A good barometer of a man’s character is not his best behavior but his worst. Pay attention and believe what he is showing you. If he gives you the moon… then treats you like you are just another ho, or not important, or worst of all ignores your existence at times… judge by the crappier behavior. We all tend to make excuses for the crappy behavior because the good stuff is soooo good. Nope, don’t do it. You deserve better.
Like I said in this episode of my podcast you will learn how to change your behavior and attitude to have a win-win situation for yourself. Either he will possible see you in a different light and clean his act up or he will take the opportunity to take a pass. If he takes the opportunity to move on, you’re better off because who wants to be with someone who really doesn’t want to be with them? Duh. You’ve got control, girl. Use it.