Divorce has a nasty way of turning life upside-down, back-to-front and inside-out. How your life looks afterwards is about choices and those choices are yours. Recognizing that you have a choice isn’t always easy: sometimes the choices aren’t obvious, sometimes you may feel backed into a corner and sometimes there may be so many choices that it’s overwhelming. Don’t allow yourself to be pressured into making decisions before you’re ready and always look for the alternatives that aren’t being presented. Think big picture … where do you want to be in five years time? The choices you make now are critical.