If you're getting divorced, get ready to be bombarded with a barrage of tough, difficult decisions that come with deadlines, pressures and life-changing consequences. The key here is to resist knee-jerk reactions and snap decisions.
Each issue warrants careful consideration, doing your research, understanding your alternatives and weighing the pros and cons. When you look back on this you want to know why you made the decisions you did and feel confident they were the right choices for you at the time. It's the difference between surviving and thriving after divorce and being a victim and who wants to be a victim?