I’ve heard a lot of people say they should have ended it sooner. I think it ends exactly when it’s supposed to. The day it does.
Leading up to the conversation that ended things, was years of heartache, stress and frustration. Why wouldn’t the squares fit into the round pegs!!! The square loves the peg, but it just won’t fit.
This is not about our sex life.
It’s about two people who genuinely love each other, but in a way love themselves more. To stay together was to continue pain, suffering and depression. We scientifically proved this when days after consciously ending things we were laughing, breathing and loving. Loving in a new way. A respectful, open and warm way. This love had not been felt or given in years.
For ten long years we pushed on. Tried, triumphed and failed a lot.