I got a comment on my Drunk Q & A post from Sunday
that really kind of annoyed me.
It wasn’t that bad, it was just an anonymous person
(because who doesn’t like to say things anonymously?)
Wow, seems to me that neither you nor your boyfriend are over your marriages yet. Not sure why you want to belittle yourself so much by belittling your exes. Take the high road, it’s a better way to travel
Well. Well. Well.
I always publish comments that people leave me even if they are unflattering.I just figure that if I put it out there then I need to respect other’s opinionseven if they are counter to mine. But I don’t like criticism about my behavior.Who does?
Really, just keep it to yourself.
So, Al and I engaged in belittling apparently.
Well, those nimrods deserve it.
And to be honest, neither of them care what we think.
If they did then we would both be working on our marriages
instead of dating after divorce.
Plus, I take the high road every waking minute I’m with my kids.
When I’m with my best friend I don’t have to.
We can discuss how lame they are anytime we aren’t with kids.We co-parent with them so they are still ours to discuss.
And it isn’t indicative of ‘not being done with our marriages’
it’s indicative of needing an outlet to deal with these wankers.
It’s indicative of needing to find humor in their bad behavior
because otherwise we can’t cope with them.
So, consider my belittling a healthy coping tool.
Now back to my original question,
Is it immature to blog anonymously?
If I was mature I would write a book on birdnesting and
never post pictures of things like this.
So, really why should anyone expect mature behavior from me?