Getting back into the dating game after going through a divorce is no walk in the park, especially as a parent. Whether you’re a young mom or an empty nester, your kids likely have, and always will be your number one priority.
And while there’s nothing wrong with this sentiment, ask yourself, “When was the last time I let someone, including myself, take care of my own wants and needs?” If you are unable to come up with an answer right away, chances are, you’re not spending enough of your time focusing on yourself. Not to worry! We’re here to help.
Get ready to re-enter the dating pool and boost your confidence with these style tips for the post-divorced mom!
3 Style Tips for the Post-Divorced Mom
1. Pick your fit.
Updating your single style starts with the items you wear. Your attire can make or break your ability to make a long-lasting impression with your romantic prospect, which is why it’s critical to spend some time picking your fit for your date. You should base your clothing, shoe, and accessory decisions on two factors: your first date plans and your body type.
Before you pick out the perfect outfit, try to think about what you’ll be doing throughout the course of your date. Are you going out for a romantic dinner at a prestigious restaurant? Are you spending the day hiking with the person? Having an understanding of this will give you a better idea of what is most appropriate for your first date.
Once you’ve acknowledged your plans for the date, the next step is to focus on your body type. What pieces of clothing complement your figure well? What color could help bring out your eyes? If you’re not sure, opt for something red as this represents the color of love and has underlying meaning to it. Believe it or not, red also represents lust, excitement, passion and vitality, so when in doubt, use red to your advantage!
2. Switch up your eyewear.
Did you know that the eyewear you sport on a first date can affect your ability to make a good first impression? That’s right, research dating all the way back to 1943 proves that wearing some form of eyeglasses alludes to greater competence and can help you to appear more liked, industrious, and intelligent to your peers.
However, the type of glasses you wear can affect how others perceive you. For instance, people that wear full-rimmed glasses are more likely to appear more intelligent, but less attractive, in comparison to those who wear rimless glasses.
That said, remember to be mindful of these findings before you get ready to head out on your first date with that special someone post-divorce. From square-shaped to cat-eye style frames, there are a variety of trendy eyeglasses to consider that can truly add to your first-date look. Choose carefully!
3. Use makeup to enhance your features.
Putting your best face forward doesn’t have to mean applying all the lotions and potions out there. Oftentimes, less is more, particularly when meeting someone for the first time. Makeup should add to your look, not take away from it. With that in mind, try not to glob on all the foundations, blushes, and eyeshadows out there. Instead, focus on glowing up with just a few basic products that can serve to support your complexion and enhance your natural features.
A few staple makeup products you may want to try out a hydrating/tinted moisturizer, concealer, blush/bronzer, a neutral eyeshadow color, lengthening or volumizing mascara, and a setting spray to help maintain a fresh face throughout the entirety of your date.
For a little something extra, you can even apply a bold color lip as this is a great way to add to your natural makeup without taking away from your already gorgeous features. Not to mention, your smile is one of the first things people notice about you, so by sporting a bold lip color like red, for example, you’re also bringing attention to your beautiful pearly whites.
Going out on a first date can be nerve-wracking as a post-divorced mom. With kids to worry about and somewhat unfamiliar territory, there’s no denying how difficult it can be to feel confident from the inside out.
Lack of self-esteem can play a part in your ability to make a good first impression, however, which is why these style tips are here to guide you throughout your journey of looking and feeling your best come time for your next first date with that special someone. Refer back to these tips if and when the time comes and use your style to structure your first date prep and take back your personal power!