We’ve been married for 12 years and he has always been very attentive and a good father. A few months ago he started working late, working out 5 times a week, buying new clothes and leaving the room when his cell phone would ring sometimes.
Two weekends ago he went out of town on a business meeting. Something he has never done before. While he was out of town I couldn’t get him to answer his cell phone or respond to messages I left on his room phone. When he returned he looked like he hadn’t slept all weekend and was irritable with me and the kids.
My sister says he is cheating, I say he isn’t but now she has me wondering. Should I be worried and what can I do to find out for sure if he is having an affair?
I’m one confused wife!
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I hate to tell you, but I have experienced this, verbatim. Keep your eyes open.
Hmmm, what does he say when you ask him about all the changes? Not that he is going to tell you if he is cheating BUT if he has a reasonable reason for the changes that could put your mind at rest.
These are all the same things I saw in my husband and he was cheating. So, prepare for the worst 🙁
Us guys are pretty set in our ways unless something tantalizing comes along to rock the boat and shake us up. It sounds like his boat has been rocked or he is all shook up.
Do some digging on his cell phone. Go online to your cell phone account and check to see if there is a number with a lot of outgoing or incoming calls that you don’t recognize. Cell phone records can tell you a lot about what is going on, especially if a guy is cheating.
It’s how I got caught and ended up losing my family.
First, you need a plan if your worst fears come true. Trust that little voice in your gut.
Definitely.