My online dating profile. And so it beckons.
I got my divorce when I was just 40. I say just because I don’t think I’m old. And I’m not. But I’m not young either, which, as a single woman, sometimes makes me feel like I live in a divorced no man’s land. Literally. By no man, though, I don’t mean there aren’t any men. God knows there are plenty. But men who want me, at the stage I’m in, with my three kids, a house, and a cat, and, most importantly, with no father for my children living nearby to share in the parenting responsibility (my ex husband lives 8,000 miles away). It’s a tough nut to crack, and not a perfect picture, for anyone, least of all me.
Don’t get me wrong. I wouldn’t trade my family for anything. Even as a little girl I always dreamed of being a mother. And I was blessed to become one for the first time at 27 years old. But at 41, I don’t want to think of my prospects for finding a soul mate as all but impossible because of the full and busy household my ex decided to walk away from. Yet, the reality is, I must. I have to, at least for the time being, consider the possibility I may be single for the next nine or so years until my youngest child goes off to college. When he does, my world will open up to more potential partners, men who, admittedly, only want the woman and not her so-called baggage.
It pains me.
Because, as I see it, I have recently embarked on a grand adventure. For the first time in years, I am happy. I am free. I am no longer trapped in an unhappy marriage with an unappreciative and inattentive husband, and no longer living in anyone else’s shadow. A person can only spend so long applauding someone else’s success before becoming lost in it altogether. My life is now laid out before me, undetermined, a blank canvas on which I can create the image of myself I have always pictured.
My children are a part of that picture. I’m not the person I am today without them. So, when a man doesn’t call me after he learns I have full physical custody of my children, or when a man tells me he doesn’t want to meet my children now, or doesn’t think he should ever meet them, I take pause. I question. Should I even bother dating? Trying? Or should I put my romantic life on hold altogether so I can focus on my children, because, so far, no one right for them, let alone for me, has emerged?
It’s not in my nature to ever give up.
A close friend reminded me that in the not so distant past I complained to her about no longer having a man in my life. Though I don’t specifically recall the conversation, during the throes of my divorce I apparently told her I needed a man. Perhaps need was the wrong word. The correct word is want. I don’t need anything or anyone to make my life whole. For that, I thank my children and myself. But I find myself in a difficult position today, in limbo between my love and responsibility for my children, and my desire to share my life with another adult.
Until that one special person reveals himself, that person who acknowledges I am a package deal, and loves me even more because of it, here I will remain. Alone. And I’m okay with that, even better off because of it, content with the idea that someday I will have it all, even though I may not have it all at once.
This is 41. My profile. My story. For now.
This article appeared on Scary Mommy January 10, 2016.
Bberry Wine says
MiddleAgedMan-ia,
It’s a lovely story. There are probably a lot of us with similar stories. I have 4 children, 2 dogs, a cat and a crazy ex. Who is going to sign on for that? A man of real character is who. I’m not sure he exists. However, people try to set me up, I graciously meet these men so far, nothing. No man has met the challenge.
I am a package deal, truth be told though. everyone is a package deal. My wrapping is more beautiful than other’s wrapping and my package deal is a little more obvious. They should be grateful women like you and I are so open and honest.
I’m glad you have found freedom and happiness. That is the goal after all, the rest is a luxury. People in healthy relationships don’t understand the loneliness though.
Stacey Freeman says
Men of character do exist, though few and far between it seems. I hold out hope. As long as I stick to my guns, and don’t compromise my values, I know everything will work out in the end. Thank you so much for reading and commenting.
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doc says
us men are not looking to be judged or up to the challenge..move on from the disney fantasy of the world to reality. what do you have to offer as a mate that is attractive to a man? what does he have to offer that is attractive to you?
looks …stability etc….no judging….just being. you phrase …a man of real charachter…that is your opinion….character comes in many forms….loyalty…bravery…honesty…holiness etc..not just being able to deal with your 4 kids and crazy x.
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RCET says
First of all doc, you need to learn how to type….and spellcheck! Secondly, I don’t appreciate your limited view on women. Thirdly, character is measured by the things you say versus the things you do, and the choices you make in life, not only for yourself, but for the people and loved ones in your life! Having a beautiful, loving wife at 30 is fantastic! But when she suddenly gets a few wrinkles at 40, then gravity takes hold on certain parts of her body, even just a little bit, and far too many guys turn away from her. It’s friggin’ sad, especially when they look in the mirror and fail, even refuse, to see the lines and wrinkles and ‘extra’ skin hanging off their butts, thighs, behind their arms, the hair in their ears & nose, baldness, and all the other ‘ugly’ things that gravity and years can do to a man, too! We men and women all age and get more ‘wrinkly’ and ‘less fit’ (to put it as ‘PC’ as I can) as time passes and the sooner we acknowledge that the better….no, ‘happier’…our marriages and indeed, our lives, will be!
RCET says
I should’ve proofread my own work! I meant to say in the 6th sentence after ‘even just a little bit, we men forget that we also go through the same changes, and when a woman is suddenly single again, she is more distraught about it only because of how men and the media have made a woman’s beauty ALL IMPORTANT! We have lost the responsibility of accepting reality, of understanding that women, as well as men, change over time! Marriages grow stronger with that understanding! Maybe it’s time we all woke up to reality! Everybody poops as they say, and everybody get’s old! Deal with it!!
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mm oo says
I am at the exact stage you are looking towards. 51 and my last of the three kids to leave for college this fall. My suggestion for you would be, not to look forward to finding a life partner in the future when the last one leaves the nest but to be happily independent and embrace it. If love falls on your lap then it’s a plus but it’s not the “baggage” that holds men back. I have never heard men say, BOY I REALLY LIKE HER but I don’t want to take her kids on. At 51, men of my age are NOT LOOKING TO DATE OR BE WITH 51 year olds. They want to be with 35-45 year olds. It’s the reality of life. 60-65 year olds are looking to be with 50 year olds, that’s just the reality of life of single middle aged people. Why middle aged men think young girls are wanting to be with mature older men, I’m not sure but I’m assuming their all thinking they still GOT IT! It amuses me, how many good women they never gie a chance to just cause they are also middle aged. So the best thing one can do is be happy with yourself before looking to have someone come into your life to fulfill.
Stacey Freeman says
I still remain hopeful and keep an open mind with those I choose to date. Thank you so much for reading and commenting.
Kenneth Teague says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids?
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
Kenneth says
I am Mr Kenneth Teague from United Kingdom Edinburgh i am sales marketer by profession,
i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial company in and outside of England,
I lost my wife five years ago i have a daughter Juliet she is 8 years old and I am the only child of my parents Mr. Daniel Moore, a very good friend of my late father brought me to England,
since I have lived all my life UK after the death of my parents, Please tell me the basic information about you, your name, age, relationship status, where are you from, what you do for a living,
do you have kids? you can add me on facebook on [email protected]
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Not all guys date younger. I have friends who are dating men around their age and are in wonderful relationships. The beauty is there are no rules. Good luck to you with your search. You sound like a great catch for a wonderful man.
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Very well said. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts.
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JS says
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