I am a non-custodial mom and we are growing in numbers by the minute. This is not by choice but something I must live with. The stigma of a non-custodial mom living in a midwest Bible belt state is one of shame and “oh my word she MUST have done something terribly bad to lose those children!” I write about the triumphs and struggles of day to day life. I want to help other non-custodial moms to not feel so alone. We are strong, we can make it through this by lifting each other up. This will always be a judgment-free zone because we have been judged enough.